My Favorite Blessings
Sunday, November 6, 2011
And a picture of Steadman's
Summer Rewind: George Family Reunion
There was lots of visiting, laughing, running and eating during the weekend. Lots and lots of eating. We took walks along the river, danced with the Wii, played on the slip n' slides and just hung out together. And did I mention eating? Each family was in charge of a meal and we ate really well. I wish I had taken more pictures of the ordinary stuff but here are the highlights. We played a game, compliments of the Waites, that had us all in stitches. The premise of the game is that each person takes a nylon stocking with a tennis ball in the end of it and pulls it all the way over their heads. Like so...
Then the object of the game is to get your stocking twirling around by swinging your head, and pull off your opponent's stocking by looping yours around theirs and pulling until it pops off their head. As you can imagine, the game can be a little dangerous so we had to have an adult round and a kids' round. We also had relay races and played human slingshot, another game that had Gramps a little nervous about safety.
Saturday was more of just having fun being together. That afternoon we went out to Steadman's. It is a beautiful farm on a hill in the middle of nowhere in Raft River. There are just golden fields of wheat as far as the idea can see to the foot of the mountains. The Steadmans built some awesome slides in their yard on the hill for their family and then opened it up to the public to make reservations. The sight now includes two giant slides, a sunken trampoline, campsites, a sandbox, a huge 500 foot zipline, candy cannons, swingsets, fire pits, and even paintball/airsoft. It is hard to capture the whole slide on the camera but one is 700 feet long and the other is 500.
Keep on Jiggin'
The girls got to perform at the King Fine Arts Center for the International Dance Festival in July. It was a great opportunity to perform on such a big stage to a large audience. They did great!
Sunday, October 30, 2011
Confessions of a homeschool mom
Until this year. This year the school supplies sat in a back room for weeks, unopened. The first day of school was postponed for three days due to canning and basic lack of interest on my part. Now here it is the end of October and it hasn't gotten much better. I just don't want to do it this year. Maybe I am burned out. Maybe I have too much on my plate. After all, we are in the middle of a big remodel project, I have an eight month old baby, and I am trying to lose weight, get in shape, and become a runner. 'You don't want to do math today? Okay, neither do I so how about we don't.' Each school day, no matter how well planned and sucessfully begun, seems to get derailed by orthodonist appointments, building projects, beautiful weather, or a tired baby. Whatever the case, I just don't want to do it anymore. I want to sew. I want to craft. I want to do family history. Heck, I want to mop my floors and wash my windows and cook dinner. All things I never seem to find time to do when I am schooling.
Unfortunately, to my children the idea of going to public school is something akin to being thrown into a den of lions. And maybe that analogy isn't far off the mark for a shy middle schooler who has never been to a brick and mortar school before. They are not the least bit interested in giving it a try. In fact, they are adamantly opposed to the idea. And my views of what the ideal schooling situation for my children looks like hasn't really changed either. I still feel blessed that I have the knowledge, training and financial means to teach my children. I am just lacking the motivation to go after it.
This year I am teaching a K/first grader, a second grader, a fifth grader and an eighth/ninth grader. It is (thankfully) the only year that I will have four different kids being taught at home. Next year Porter will go to high school and by the time Oliver is old enough for school, Emily will be in high school. Time passes all too quickly and soon they will be gone. (Somedays I look at that fact as a promise and an opportunity.) I know that it would be unfair to enroll my kids in a school they don't want to go to just because I decided I didn't want to do it anymore; because I decided that I no longer wanted to carry out the decision I made years ago to teach them at home. I guess I just need to pick myself up by my proverbial boot straps and find some inspiration and motivation.
On the bright side, the school year is 2/3 of the way over. I can do this. But who will clean my house?
Thursday, September 29, 2011
Still Here
Sunday, July 10, 2011
100 Days of Summer -- June 25 - July 1
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
100 Days of Summer -- June 18-24
100 Days of Summer -- June 12-17
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
100 Days of Summer
I don't know where my camera was the rest of the week, but I don't have any pictures. Saturday was such an awesome day though! It was warm and sunny and we got a ton of yard work done. We mowed and trimmed and cut down trees and made a wood pile by the firepit and weeded all the herb garden and transplanted a bunch of flowers. We all worked hard together and at the end of the day we really had something to show for it. (Most of my days don't seem much like that.)
Monday, June 13, 2011
100 Days of Summer
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
Preschool
Oliver's Blessing Day
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
My latest article for the Sentinel publication
It has been a rough couple of months at our house. We brought home a perfect and healthy baby boy and rejoiced in having him as part of our family, however, we were having some difficulties with baby number five. He was jaundiced and his billirubin levels continued to rise despite spending a week plugged into the wall on a phototherapy light. He cried literally all the time and would not sleep without being held. Of course, everyone had a solution for us. Sleep him on a slant; put a ticking clock in his crib; feed him some sugar water; don’t eat anything with gluten; stay away from lactose; let him cry it out. All this advice, while offered by well-meaning friends and relatives, was not working. Finally, after weeks of crying, both mother and baby, we went back to the doctor. Upon weighing him we discovered that this five week old baby had not gained a single ounce since birth. We were sent immediately to the hospital for some tests. The diagnosis on the lab order sheet read “failure to thrive”. I sobbed all the way to the hospital. I felt that I had completely failed my tiny little son.
As summer arrives, I reflect back on the last year of school and evaluate our progress. Are my children thriving? Is the curriculum I am using still meeting their educational needs? Generally, as we homeschool, we have no AYP to meet, no committee to write up our standards and benchmarks and convert those into learning goals for our classrooms. Many homeschooled students do not participate in standardized testing to measure their progress against other students across the nation. How do we know, then, that our students are thriving? Personally, I ask myself if my children are enjoying learning. Beyond the love of learning that I want to instill in them, there are a few other things that are important. Are they “becoming acquainted with all good books, and with languages, tongues and people” (D&C 90:15)? A huge responsibility rests upon our shoulders as the educators of our own children in a community where there may often be little accountability to anyone other than God and His spirits that we instruct. Are we instructing them “more perfectly in theory, in principle, in doctrine…of things both in heaven and in the earth, and under the earth; things which have been, things which are, things which must shortly come to pass; things which are at home, things which are abroad; the wars and the perplexities of the nations, and the judgments which are on the land; and a knowledge also of countries and of kingdoms” that they may be prepared in all things (D&C 88:77-83)?
Aside from thriving academically, I want to also make sure that my children are thriving in other areas of their lives. Not necessarily thriving in the way the world might measure my success as an educator or their adaptation into the world around them. Rather, I wish for my children a success that makes them very different from the world. For example, my children are very behind their peers as the world might gauge their social adaptation. My kids own no iPods or smartphones. We don’t have an x-box or a PSP. They aren’t up on the latest movies and they don’t know the words to a single top 40 song. My kids are reading Little House on the Prairie, Chronicles of Narnia and Anne of Green Gables. In our house, a world still exists where Laura looks up to her Pa, Gilbert Blythe is the kind of guy girls dream of marrying (marrying!) and good bands together to rid the world of evil. There is not a vampire book among them. And I am thankful for that.
My teenage son doesn’t spend his afternoons trying to get to the next level in the latest multi-player virtual game, but he did teach his little brother how to ride his bike. Instead of practicing applying makeup in her bedroom mirror, my ten-year-old daughter is loving learning how to change her baby brother’s diaper and helping her little sister read. In a world that is forcing children to grow up way too fast, I am happy to hang on to every minute of snuggling in the sun for read-aloud time, even if the teenager has read the book five times already. I smile to myself as I listen to my two preschool children playing with action figures in the other room as the one toy says to the other, “You will be sorry that your father joined Hitler’s team!” I make myself remain patient and not be bugged when my daughter follows right at my heels all day, wanting to be a part of everything I am doing, whether it is cooking dinner, bathing the baby or sorting the mail. I am glad that it is me that she is following and wanting to be like and learning from. And I strengthen my resolve to be a better person because I know she is watching.
Spiritually, I want my children to thrive as they are “nourished from the good word of God.” So we contrast Hitler and what he was trying to do that led to World War II with the people living after Christ visited the Americas when “there was not any manner of –ites” among them. We write comparison/contrast essays about Abinadi and Martin Luther. We talk about the code of chivalry that the knights kept in medieval times and about what Christ taught in the Beatitudes.
I think of the opposite or antithesis of that diagnosis of “failure to thrive” and I think of abundance. A child fails to thrive because something vital and necessary is lacking in that child’s daily life. So as I evaluate the school experience of the past year, and years before, I look at the abundance that is being offered to my students. What I want my children to know, more importantly that anything else that they can be taught, is who they are and that they are loved – not because they are part of the “in” crowd or because they have the right label on their jeans, but because they are sons and daughters, literal spirit children, of the God of heaven and earth. Because of that, they have enormous potential and an unlimited inheritance. And they are here on this earth to learn all that they can to be ready to become heirs to that – an abundance that they cannot comprehend. It is through teaching and learning with my children that I feel abundance in my own life. An abundance of responsibility but also an abundance of joy.
As for my littlest guy? His problems stemmed from a lack of nourishment. For some reason, baby number five was just not getting enough to eat from breastfeeding. Like homeschooling, that can be a difficult thing to measure. It had always worked before. But you probably know from homeschooling that what has worked great for one child will not always be what another child needs. Also like homeschooling, everyone had some advice for me. There were lots of tears and lots of fervent prayers (just like homeschool). Thankfully, it was something that was able to be corrected. He was put on a high-calorie formula every two hours and, in only a weekend, he gained a whole pound! Now he is thriving in an abundance of love AND nourishment.
Monday, May 9, 2011
"Love Handles, Back Fat and Bellies" or "other disadvantages to not being able to nurse"
Sunday, May 8, 2011
Mother's Day
I rejoice that I am a woman and I am humbled and so very blessed to be a mother.